Ties of Love In Marriage
Marriage is tied firmly with the aid of love and love itself comprises a number of characters that serve as elements that aid and empower love to performing its action in marriage thus tightning marriage firmly.
However,marriage being the primary source of every family and family being the primary source of every society,should have meaning making it the primary source of every society.
Marriage in brief;is the legal union between male and female thus,coming together of male and female to become husband and wife legally.Meanwhile,LOVE is sacrifice.In this regard;sacrifice means;given up your pleasure or taste at the expense of the other which is what is expected in marriage.
LOVE cannot just exis and last in marriage till it is accompanied by these characters:
Emotion:
This is the first character of love in any relationship bringing people together.Emotion is the strong feeling we have for each other when we are in relationship and it shows some kind of appreciation for ones existence in ones life that makes it some how difficult for one to live when the other is not.There must be emotional feeling in marriage to encourage love.
EXPRESSION:
This is a way of expressing our feelings mostly without saying anything.When one is in love and does not express it,it disappoints and disagrees with ones partner’s love and may cause shortage of the love when it is not encouraged for relatively a long period of time.
CARING:
This is another way of showing love.Caring is prepared in the heart stays in the heart and only shows when the occasion calls for it and needs some weapon to blossom its action.Some times;its weapon could be money,mental devotion,physical or some other thing,it just need it.
Affection:
Affection is a character of love that shows when the love has gotten deep.At this stage,lovers always know what is in each other’s mind,each other’s feeling even with saying nothing.It is just a way of knowing real love.
FEELINGS:
This is synonymous to above mentioned in love.For full details on MARRIAGE,LOVE and their TIES click TIES OF LOVE IN MARRIAGE.In what ways do we see functions of love in marriage?
Selfishness in marriage:
This is an aspect of marriage where the role of love in marriage is seen.It eliminates the selfishness in marriage and improves sacrifice.
Doubt:
Doubt is one of the factors that causes divorce in marriage and if there is a solid strong pure love accompanied with its ties in marriage;doubt will always be far away from the home.
Faith:
Love improves faith in marriage and when there is faith,there will always be co-operation and progress in the home.
Mutual Understanding:
It is the existence of love in marriage that permits the existence of mutual understanding and dispute free family.
Advantages and need for love is so many beyond what I can narrate here.For more on it click details on love.
However,advantages of love and its need are mentioned in brief above,now,how can we improve LOVE in the family?
Sacrifice:
This is one of the major way through which we can promote love in relationship.this is illustrated with this quote “loving a perfect person in a perfect way is not love but loving an imperfect person in a perfect way”.Meaning:naturally,nothing is perfect but with sacrifice,we can make things perfect to sweet our need.
Appreciation:
This is another way of improving love in marriage.www.myngn.blogspot.com discusses further on all.