J Query Love

Almost half of the marriages fail out of which a major chunk don’t even make it past the first year. Understanding the cause can really help a lot of marriages. Some of the reasons which lead marriages in divorce are lack of proper communication, issues of finances or in some cases the circumstance in which the marriage took place. These issues can be found in any marriage however the essence lies in how these problems are tackles as in otherwise it can lead to a failure in the wedlock.

Communication is necessary for any relationship not only marriage to thrive. Without proper communication the couple individually do not even come to know that the other partner has a problem let alone talking a solution out for it. Communication is not only essential for facing problems but also to feed the relationship. Only through effective communication can the partners have a chance to share passions, hopes, ambitions, etc apart from a healthy manner of resolving their issues. Without effective communication a marriage is definite to end in a failure.

Love may be all it takes for people to whole heartedly marry however it takes something called money also to keep a marriage alive. While financial strains by themselves may not be the direct reason for a failed marriage, the tension coming from these financial high-lows are more than enough to land a marriage in rough waters and in a lot of cases, failure. What happens more often than not is that one partner becomes picky about the financial affairs within the marriage which can be detrimental to marriages.  Read more... (590 words, estimated 2:22 mins reading time)

……..the tiniest thread in the world yet, strong enough to bind the world!!!!!!!!!!

The tiniest thread in the world, yet strong enough to bind the world!!!

Yeah, what is this tiniest thread…LOVE? Yeah…LOVE is the tiniest thread, many writers have come out with different definitions of love, some say…. ‘A deep strong feeling of affection and some…..devoted likenesses. So, what do you say? I say…….. ‘It’s a SACRIFICE!!!!!!!’ Wondering how and why? Yeah, it’s like this: Sacrifice is defined to be an act of giving up yourself for another to survive” and that is just what love is.

Caring

Feelings

Acceptance

Affection

All these words are often misquoted to be love of which they are not; they are just similar words linking to love not love. They only aid love to develop in these regards:

CARING: is a feeling inside that blossoms love in either side and only shows when the occasion calls for it, meanwhile, it needs some weapons to blossom its actions when the occasion calls for its manifestation.

FEELINGS: this is a mental sign of caring which does not need any weapons or aid to blossom its action and this is why it is the simplest way of showing love. I mean Showing LOVE and NOT LOVE.

ACCEPTANCE: this is unknowingly close to love “SACRIFICE”. One hardly disagrees with whatever someone you love does and that is indirectly sacrificing your will for one you love.  Read more... (638 words, estimated 2:33 mins reading time)

The divorce rate goes up in recent years so there are more single women looking for men at free online dating sites. Single women seek single men online is common these days. It is easy to find single men in USA or other countries. This computer world connect singles together online. You do not have to meet someone at school, work, or other social places. Online singles can meet with each other on the internet by using a few clicks from the computer. What you need to do is to post a good profile and you can even upload your pictures to your personal ad. You then communicate with other singles for free. You do not pay anything using free online dating sites. You need to have a good profile so that other online singles can drop you a line if they found interested in you.

Looking for relationships and marriage at free dating services has been popular in recent years. Free online dating websites provide a means for singles to find appropriate dating dream mates. Online dating service is the best way to find single women or single men online. You can find thousands of people for friendship, relationships, or even marriage. Joining online dating free services is simple. The form to register your personal ads is piece of cake. In other words, seeking a compatible dating partner online is easy as 1, 2, and 3. Free dating sites provide members free email dating services. You can check your messages directly to any dating site your register on. You can reply to any message directly through the free dating website.  Read more... (564 words, estimated 2:15 mins reading time)

“We stay married just for the kids…” I can’t tell you how many times I heard that from really good people; couples who were willing to endure almost anything for the sake of their children. They only wanted to save their marriage so their children wouldn’t have to suffer from the mistake they made when they got married to each other.

They were willing to live with the marriage trouble for as long as it took to get their kids all set in life and then part. They just wanted me to help them work out some plan for them to make it a bit more tolerable. “What good people,” I thought! But how sad! They had given up on their marriage because they felt they were incompatible yet they both demonstrated uncommon nobility in their willingness to sacrifice for the kids.

Have you considered Making your Marriage a Happy One?

My thinking is if you are agreeing to live together and just want me to help you have a pact, why not come up with a pact that creates happiness. Did that seem reasonable? “Yes,” they all said, “but our therapist said we never should have been married in the first place and we figured he/she knows what they are talking about…”

I told every couple the same thing:  Read more... (572 words, estimated 2:17 mins reading time)