Archive for July, 2009




Dating is a very serious past-time in the western world and after a hectic day in office, many people return home to indulge in a bit of romantic dating through internet dating sites or speed dating sites or friendship sites. Many of these sites are free, allowing you to meet ladies online or meet men online or make friends online free. In case of other friendship websites, you can sign up after paying a nominal fee. Which kind of friendship website or dating sites online you will choose depends completely on you.

But I personally feel your chances of getting a good date through a friendship website is higher than what you can get out of an online romantic dating site. This is because in a friendship site, the reach is wider and you can make friends with a greater number of people from all corners of the globe, you can mix with them openly and freely without any inhibition, and as a result, relationships can develop faster and better than it can happen in a romantic dating site.

Unlike in friendship dating which is fast catching on, in dating sites online there is a degree of seriousness and formality attached, which can create hindrance at times in the development of the relationship.

In friendship dating which usually happens through friendship site, this seriousness is often lacking, and so the two people after becoming friends can often get along with each other like a house on fire. You will feel surprised to learn this but Friendship Website Makes Your Dating Experience Truly Worthy and Enjoyable in more ways than one.

There are distinct dimensions related to friendship dating. Sometimes you are pals first and then become a couple and decide to go out on a group date or you might have befriended a complete stranger over a friendship site and after going out and chatting with this person, you start developing feelings for that person. This turns out to be a rather novel date and a new kind of friendship is forged.

In fact you would be even more astonished to know that there are hundreds of people who failed to find appropriate suitors in online dating sites but ended up with a life partner whom they met through a friendship site. If you are really and seriously in search of a good friendship site where you can acquire an exceptional online dating experience, then you must check out the unique friendship site FriendsorMates.com which boasts of the distinction of being a platform where many couples had met and started their courtship.

And if you want a successful friendship dating, you must try to make your partner or date feel on top of the world and make him/her the centre of your universe.





Friendship is a perfect bond between two close individuals. Friends are those on whom we can confide and share our feelings. You cannot choose your family but you can definitely choose friends. There are things which you may not be able to share with your parents, or spouses but you can surely talk and share with your friends. Friendship is a special bond. You need to nurture your relationship with your friend.

You can share your joys, tears, secrets, jokes with your friend. There are many friends but to find a true friend is special. True friends are not easy to find and when you find a true friend, do not lose him/her. You can express your love for your friends with  Friendship Sayings.

Friendship Sayings are a nice way of  appreciating your friend. It shows that your friends mean a lot to you. There are many websites that are available which caters to Friendship Sayings. You can select end number of Sayings on Friendship and tell your feelings through this sayings.

Having great friends is a blessing. Not everyone is blessed with good friends. Friends are for lifetime. Friendship quotes can also be dedicated to friends.  Seeing a group of friends will make you jealous, because friends are life. You will wish that you too had such great friends. The message of friendship is a perfect message that says that you are lucky if you have a real best friend.

Friendship Sayings reveal to you the real meaning of friendship in a poetic style. You write this sayings and gift it to your friends during friendship day, their birthdays or just to say that you care for your friend. A friendship saying can be thoughtful, funny, humorous, emotional or about true bonding.

There are many bondings that exists in the world, yet friendship is the most pleasant relationship. You should be aware of friends who take advantage of your friendship. There have been many movies and novels that are based on friendship. Friendship is a bond of innocent feelings. You are what your friends are. Long live friendship.





In this age of technology, where you find yourself faced with more time-saving devices than ever – and are simultaneously busier than ever – it is gratifying to know that you have new resources available to help you find love… happiness… and even find your Soulmate.

Internet Dating is gaining in popularity and no longer holds the stigma it did even five years ago. Online dating and matchmaking services have become highly regarded as reliable ways to take the guesswork out of dating. For those who have concentrated heavily on their careers – only to find that with success comes less time for dating – online dating services have become an invaluable tool in helping singles meet like-minded others.

Want to Find your Soulmate? The Online Dating Coach to the Rescue!

As an added benefit to the convenience of online dating, clients can also receive the services of an Online Dating Coach or “Love Coach” as we’re sometimes referred to by our clients. As a professional guide and consultant, a Dating Coach is now in demand by singles who are looking for guidance. Many professionals understand how important it is to describe the best parts of their personalities in writing – and this is where a Dating Coach can really help you shine!

An Online Dating Coach is an expert and will create an outstanding Online Dating Profile for you. There aren’t many Online Dating Coaches in the world, but those who choose this profession are often talented – and even masterful – at creating a dating profile. The coach’s talent will be crucial to the client who has a lot to offer in a relationship, but who just isn’t skillful at putting his or her ideas down on paper.

An Online Dating Coach will typically conduct an initial telephone interview with you, asking you lots of very interesting questions. During the first coaching session, your dating coach will take a look at your personality. By asking you a series of personal and revealing questions and paying attention to how you reply, your coach will use this information to create a dating strategy just for you.

Be honest with your dating coach in expressing what you’re looking for. In addition to describing your personality in your dating profile, your coach will help you be realistic in your search for a relationship. If you’re an average-looking guy collecting unemployment benefits with three young kids at home, it’s unlikely you’ll be dating a world-famous supermodel – no matter how much you think you might want to.

But on the other hand, your coach will also help you achieve the best results possible. Often an average-looking man or woman can be made to look and sound much better than they might sound on their own, just by highlighting and accentuating their best qualities. Your coach will also help you write Letters of Introduction. This will benefit you in several ways – for one, your response rate to your dating matches will almost certainly increase, and you’ll have access to more attractive partners.

As an emerging new category of personal coaching, the role of the Online Dating Coach will almost certainly expand over the next five to ten years. As Online Dating grows in popularity, so will the role of the Dating Coach in serving the needs of clients worldwide who flock to dating sites in search of their Soulmates!


Monday July 13, 2009 00:21

Friendship in our materialistic age




FRIENDSHIP IN OUR MATERIALISTIC AGE

 

                                                  True, loyal and faithful friends are indeed our prized possession supposed to be treasured forever. Their friendship is timeless and eternal. “For without friends,” Aristotle says, “no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods.” Good friends are two bodies with one soul.

 

                                                   Regrettably and ironically, genuine friendship is hard to be found in our materialistic world where money and personal gains are considered as yardsticks or criteria for having friends. All the folk tales, stories, great sermons extolling the virtues and setting great standard of friendship seem to have lost their core meaning in our present age. The ideal friendship has been confined to books only. Its significance is reduced to nothingness in our jet-set age, where moral values are blurred and eclipsed by greed, avarice, self-aggrandizement, faithlessness and some other social evils and vices.

 

                                                     There was a time when it was unimaginable for a friend to cheat his friend. Cheating friends amounted to infidelity. Friends were considered two bodies with one soul. The spirit of self-sacrifice for the sake of friend was common worthwhile quality. They were gelled together in adversity. They were always mindful of each other’s interests and give each other room to grow. Jealousy, envy, prejudice, hatred, greed, hypocrisy were foreign to them. They were all-weather friends, treating their friendship as something great, noble and holy. It is indeed very painful to say that such an ideal friendship is rare in our present era. In their wild attempt to be part of rat race to hanker after worldly riches and benefits, friends, shockingly, have adopted an indifferent and devil-may-care attitude towards their friends, who are less fortunate than they are. This who-cares attitude is a grim reminder that genuine friendship has been adversely affected by our irrational and inordinate desire of self-aggrandizement, setting aside all the basic moral values and ethics.

 

                                                           All this creates a bleak, depressing and pessimistic outlook. One wonders whether he will ever be able to have good friends in this materialistic world. The answer is a big “Yes”. One must hope for the better. Pessimism must be replaced by optimism. Despite the fact that materialism reigns supreme in our times, loyal and devoted friends can still be found provided we make concerted efforts to locate them and encourage them to come out and let people know true friendship still exists, although it lays hidden by being eclipsed and overwhelmed by negative elements of our society. But its disappearance is not permanent. It will shine again.

 

                                                             Friendship is a noble quality. We hate to lose or deprive ourselves of this great and wonderful possession of ours. We are all supposed to make sincere effort to keep friendship alive for our own sake. Remember, Friends have no substitute, no match, no even money, nothing whatsoever. Following are some useful suggestions to keep friendship still valuable and worthwhile:

 

To have a friend, be a friend. Never test your friend. He/she might not be in a position, though they wish to, to come up with your expectations because of their own problems and compulsions. Be sincere with your friends. Your sincerity will win their hearts, and they will reciprocate your love, sincerity and devotion. All friendships have their ups and downs. Learning to put aside disagreements makes companionship long-lasting. There should be frankness among friends for self-revelation. One must take friend’s criticism as seriously as their expressions of admiration or praise. Friends must show their unity, faithfulness and loyalty. Friendship contains some trial, but true friendship endures the test and ever grows from it. Friends give more than they expect to receive.

 

 

In our age, when casual acquaintance often comes so easily and when intimacy comes too soon and cheaply, we can’t blink the fact that the plant of genuine friendship takes time to grow and prosper provided being watered by sincerity, love, dedication, devotion and , above all, the spirit of self-sacrifice.

 

True friendship is timeless. Circumstances may, sometimes, fade or eclipse it, but it cannot be completely effaced.